Tuesday, October 28, 2008

oh and one more thing...

The good folks at the motel where we stayed this weekend have just gotten a "special needs" dog that they're working with. It's a very nice dog and seems to be making great progress. The humans had gotten the dog a little bed but he much prefers to sleep in their bed and they're fine with it. When I mentioned that we have a "special needs" kitty, they pretty much insisted that we take the dog bed for her.

The bed has some kind of special insert, perhaps memory foam. I've squished it. It's nice. Apparently to Koa, it feels like a mommy cat belly, because she blissfully kneads it for a while before curling up and napping in it. The bed is a little big for her, but she really really likes it. Here she is smiling at her good luck.



You can bet that I've already sent Miss Smiley's picture off to the motel-keepers. Such a kind gesture that they made.

p.s. on dance camp

Oh, I should mention that in addition to our regular suspects -- dancers from MA, RI, NY, NJ, ME, NH, CT, and VT -- people came from pretty darned far away to spend the weekend with us at camp. We had at least six people from California, and some folks from Pennsylvania, Georgia, North Carolina, Ohio, and Florida. A nice testament to the very good time our little group has when we get together.

dance camp -- cha cha cha

Dance camp really was lovely this time around. Two committee members approached me to talk about the communications snafus with the housing, and that made me feel a lot better. They even offered us a partial refund, which I of course declined.

Our motel accommodations were quite comfortable and cheery. The people who run the motel are extra nice and we spent some time talking to them and rubbing their dog's belly.

A lot has happened at Camp Chimney Corners since we were last there. For one thing, the dining hall burned down and was replaced by a much grander, much more architecturally appropriate building, one that actually acknowledges that it is practically next to a scenic lake. Somewhere in there, they got a new cook and the food was good; the cooks were extremely attentive to vegetarians. They seem to make everything plain and put fixings on the side, so as to please everyone.

Our contra dance caller was Lisa Greenleaf, one of my all-time favorites. She talks a lot about how to make dancing a lot more fun for everyone, even if people are screwing up. She talks about how to be gentle with your partner and not cause pain, and she talks about how to react if you are feeling pained -- all good sensible advice, and great for building community. She gets new people up and dancing very quickly, while giving experienced folks fun, challenging, and smooth dances to work with. And she's great at helping an entire group get back on track when there's an inevitable "train wreck".

The English teacher, Michael Ciccone, is a gentle and sweet man and a great teacher. For the first time ever, I understood how to do "Cecil Sharpe siding" (sorry for the dance geek talk), but why can't other teachers make it that easy? For the first time ever, I stopped worrying about screwing up and felt like I was *dancing* English and being fairly elegant about it.

Our musicians were mostly great, though they came with a drummer who got a little -er- over enthusiastic at times. *He* was having a great time, but when he started banging on his drums really loudly and blowing his little street whistle, well, I'm sure my face wasn't pretty and smiley.

I did sit out a *few* dances during the weekend but found it difficult to just sit and watch. I felt like one of the most popular belles at the ball -- as soon as I'd sit down, someone would invite me to dance. It was all very flattering. A lot of people came up to me to tell me how much they appreciated hearing me laugh, also sweet.

One of the very fun new traditions was afternoon tea. This apparently started at the first west coast dance camp last spring, quickly spread to our spring east coast camp, and happened again this weekend. One of our esteemed members baked nearly 150 scones, made several pots of tea, and served it all with whipped cream and jam. It provided a nice time to sit, socialize, catch up with people, and relax a little. Just lovely.

I'm not sure I mentioned this story after last spring's camp, so I'll tell it again. I'm so moved by it. The west coast gender-role-free dance community started up just a few years ago. I remember talking to my friend, RR, who'd lived in NYC and had gone to the NY dances. He eventually moved west and didn't want to give up our special brand of dancing. I remember talking to him at a dance camp years ago about what it takes to run a dance, and he got a dance series going in San Francisco.

At the very first SF dance, two men, Mark and Tom, met each other and have been a couple ever since. They are really nice people, caring, energized, passionate. They were at the spring dance camp and came east again for the fall camp.

It turns out that RR's kidneys were failing. He became weaker and weaker and eventually had to stop working. He was undergoing dialysis fairly frequently but still managed to organize the dances. I heard that he organized the west coast dance camp primarily from bed.

Meanwhile, Mark had heard about RR's condition and heard that RR was hoping for a transplant. He felt sad, but basically thought the whole thing didn't concern him. Except that it kept coming back to him. He said that he started hearing about kidney disease and transplants all the time. Something kept tickling his brain until one day he realized that all those messages were meant for him and that he was meant to give RR one of his kidneys.

And so, this summer, he did just that. They're both recovering well. Tom reports that neither of them is completely back to their top-shelf self, BUT that it's as if RR has had new life breathed into him. Reports are that RR is revitalized, really quite literally.

As I say, I am so touched by this story. It's a hint of what the dance community is all about.

Tuesday, October 21, 2008

dance camp -- on, then off, then on

We're planning to go to dance camp this weekend in Becket MA. One of my favorite callers will be there, accompanied by a terrific band. It will be the first time back in Becket, for Robert and me at least, after many years of absence. We've been looking forward to the weekend for a long time.

Accomodations are fairly uncomfortable but we've finally made our peace with the place. We like to stay in an unheated cabin (no electricity, "wash house" next door). We bring loads of blankets and stay very toasty. Last night, we got a last-minute message saying that the the water in the wash houses has been turned off. So we needed to stay in a dorm or deal with a bathroom that was a significant hike away. The coed dorm is fairly unpleasant and we'd prefer to stay together.

We discussed a lot of options. Not going was one. Sending one of us (to stay in a single-sex dorm) was another. Staying in a local motel was another idea. But when I looked up the rates at the motel, they were prohibitively high. We thought about staying 20 miles away in the next closest motel, but that involves much more than 20 minutes of driving for each back and forth.

Finally, we called the nearby motel and were quoted a rate $100 less than what's posted on their web site. It's still a little pricey, but we're both going to dance camp minus all the linens, blankets, and extra pillows. Phew.

And now that we've taken care of the comfort issues, we can concentrate on the having fun part. And I'm especially looking forward to that.

Sunday, October 19, 2008

weekend

It's been a nice weekend. On Friday night, we were treated by my company to night at the Symphony -- Concord, not Boston, but they were darned good. They played a Mozart piece (Prague Symphony, familiar to me, not to Robert). They played a weird moody Debussy piece, which included the Concord Women's chorus for the last movement. The words seemed to be something like "aah aah." And they played a Rachmaninoff piano concerto with a rockin' 20-something (maybe even in his late teens) who had understandably won awards and who, on Friday night, made the piano sing.

Last night, we journeyed to Montague, a tiny charming town in Western Central Massachusetts, for a very fun contra dance. We'd agonized about whether to go to our own home dance in Boston, and decided on heading west rather than east for the smaller venue and friends we don't see as frequently.

We drove out during the last bits of daylight and enjoyed some fall color -- *as if* we weren't getting enough of it by just glancing out the windows at home. Still, it's fun to see from a moving car and to know that some people actually come visit to see it.

It was about 40 degrees when we were driving home, but sometime in the middle of the night, the temperature must have dropped a little lower. When we woke up this morning, there was a hard frost on the ground and Robert was completely congested. We decided to inaugurate the burning season in our wood stove, and we have a nice little fire going at the moment.

I'm going to get adventurous in the kitchen a little later (only with food and our intended dinner), but we should be topping off the end of the weekend with a good and likely multicultural meal.

This week marks that twentieth and last week at the farm. I'll probably order the special "fall harvest" delivery, so it's really my penultimate visit for the year. Fall is definitely with us. We are hunkering down for the duration.

Monday, October 13, 2008

New Mexico 2008

The trip to New Mexico was great -- very relaxing, while filled with activities, talking, good food, a little family, lots of beautiful driving, art, shopping, and some public gatherings.

The scenery is so different from that at home and it varies quite a bit. We drove across mesa past many mountains. The sky was a deep blue almost consistently with an occasional set of high puffy clouds. Occasionally, we'd see black clouds off in the distance, some of which reached to the ground, which meant that in very isolated areas, it was raining. The earth and rock varied from light tan to dark brown to deep red, sometimes even presenting itself in stripes. On top of that, we'd often see little dark green bushes (called trees, believe it or not) interspersed with light green sage brush. In some areas, there were tall pines and aspens (like our birches), many of which had turned yellow for the fall holiday. The aspens quake -- their leaves shimmer in the wind. And wildflowers -- lots of light purple asters and bushes with brushy yellow flowers called chamisa. The air smells fresh and vaguely like herbs.

Food is incredible, especially if you stick to "New Mexican" cuisine (not Mexican). They grow and then roast a variety of chiles. When eating New Mexican, they ask whether you want green chile sauce, red chile sauce, or "Christmas" -- both. Driving down the street, you often see people standing over a big roaster, kind of like a lottery drum, cranking out fresh-roasted chiles. You can even go to the grocery store and buy chile powder to take home, which we did.

For the long stretches, we stayed in two B&Bs, one in Santa Fe and one in Taos. In Santa Fe, our B&B consisted of 24 tiny casitas in an old neighborhood. These were tiny apartments or large rooms that had fireplaces, seating areas, microwaves, fridges, and local furniture and art work. In the morning, we'd walk a short distance to the larger house and have breakfast, eating with some fairly interesting people. Our morning cook was from Puerto Rico (she was not a Newyorqueno) and the B&B manager had recently worked at a Trader Joe's near our house.

While in Santa Fe, we walked for miles. We went to art galleries. We found a woman from whom I'd bought a neclace five years ago and bought another one. (She sets up her table outdoors in a particular spot, so we just went back to that spot). We went to the Georgia O'Keefe museum on the very first day of a new exhibit. It's a very neat museum because they often pair paintings with photographs either showing the original scene or the inspiration for the scene or the painting itself. We also went to the International Folk Art museum.

We went to the Farmer's Market, which has just gotten its own plaza and building. There were all sorts of vendors and colors, flowers, vegetables, crafts. Many people hang ristras -- strings of chiles -- from their front door as a sign of good luck. So ristras were everywhere. We bought a worldwide vegetarian cookbook from a friend of the B&B's cook.

Also in Santa Fe, we visited Robert's 100-year old grandfather, Grandmarvin. We met his girlfriend, a mere 92-year old named Dixie. Marvin introduced us all to as many people as he could. And when his son Terry announced he was taking us out for dinner, Marvin told everyone we were going out. He was quite happy for the visit.

Our last day in Santa Fe, Terry and his partner, Claire, drove us up the high road to Taos. This is the old, more interesting route through forests and small charming towns. We stopped at Chimayo, which we affectionately call "the church of the holy dirt." It's a healing place with many crutches and other signs of recovery. There's a small hole in the floor out of which you're supposed to scoop up dirt. Terry rubbed some on his leg which had undergone surgery. I hope it helps. After a few more quick stops, we ate a late lunch in Taos, then returned on the low road.

The following day, we headed up to Taos again, this time on the low road so that we could get to town relatively early. The Taos Pueblo, which has been continuously occupied for 1000 years, was having a festival. There were no cameras allowed, but visitors were welcome. There were vendors from many surrounding pueblos, and of course, I bought more jewelry.

The ceremony was amazing and quite an honor to attend. Men wore black and white striped makeup on their entire body topped with a small loin cloth and went "looting and pillaging" across the pueblo. They "kidnapped" children and "baptized" them. They danced. There was a harvest element with blessed aspen branches. And then they climbed a pole -- the guy who succeeded in making it to the top got to keep the booty at the very top. These were the physical aspects of the ceremony, but it was actually alternately funny and moving and holy.

We stayed in a B&B that had been owned by Mabel Dodge Luhan, who was a real mover and shaker in the artistic and intellectual community in Taos. She had befriended Willa Cather, Georgia O'Keefe, DH Lawrence, Karl Jung (and before I knew this, I kept thinking about Trickster at the Taos Pueblo), Ansel Adams, and on and on. The B&B was quirky and filled with interesting and lovely guests and staff members. We stayed in the part that had been built about 200 years ago, long before MDL even arrived.

We went to some small museums and to a wool festival (complete with examples of many of the animals that provided wool, minus yaks and bison), to the local historic cemetery, and to the Kit Carson house.

We drove up into Colorado one day to have dinner in La Veta with Robert's 'rents, who drove down from Denver. Another day, we drove to Abiquiu, where Georgia O'Keefe painted some of her work, and we visited Ghost Ranch, which is now a Presbyterian retreat center. We might go back and stay there on our next visit. The scenery was gorgeous and it was really fun to go back and look at some of her paintings of the area after seeing the landscape with our own eyes.

Another day, we drove the "Enchanted Circle" and visited DH Lawrence's old property (given to him by Mabel Dodge Luhan) way up a country road and visited his shrine/chapel. That day, we also ended up visiting a furniture place and talking to the furniture maker and an arts cooperative and talking to the proprietor. We went up into ski country, though I more appreciated the scenery between towns than what we saw in the towns.

Then, on our way out of Taos, we took the high road back and stopped in a little town called Las Truchas, which basically has one shortish road which ends in farm land several miles away. We walked the length of the town part and visited galleries, admiring the mountain scenery around us. It had snowed up high the night before and the clouds were swirling around the peaks, occaisionally revealing some of the white stuff.

Back in Albuquerque, we had dinner with an old college friend (the wife of whom was in town this past weekend, so we had dinner with her again on Saturday). On our last day, we thought we'd go to the Old Town, but instead, we spent the entire day at the "BioPark" -- a large garden -- the aquarium, and the zoo, which is pretty good.

Then up early the following morning and onto a plane. It was a good trip. Lots of great input for all the senses, a good break from our routine, and a much needed relaxing time together with very few thoughts of work. We'll go back.

Wednesday, October 08, 2008

We're back!

We're back and had a great time. More on the trip soon, I promise, but I just had to report on a few political signs we saw while away. We were in New Mexico, in the liberal part, so saw very few signs for McCain and even fewer for McCain and Palin. And besides, the word "McCain" doesn't make for great copy.

We saw lots of signs, though, for Obama, including the special New Mexico version -- Obamanos! At the Taos Obama headquarters, we asked whether we could buy a sticker but the stickers fly out the door about as fast as they come in. Obamanos was posted on fences way out in rural areas. One sign was so far at the end of a road that I was able to stand in the middle of the road to take a picture. We also saw Si se puede (yes we can).

A huge sign on a farm house: Horse lovers for Obama.

And on a bench outside a pottery shop way out a dirt road: Alaskan malamutes for Obama.

Oh, and voter registrations were happening at every public event we attended.

A funny story from visiting Robert's (step) grandfather, whom we affectionately call Grandmarvin. The phone rang in his room and we heard him say "uh-huh, uh-huh, uh-huh. Well, I'm voting for Obama! ... Now listen here. I'm 100 years old. I'm in a wheelchair and I live in a nursing home. So I'm not going canvassing for you. I will vote though. I'm getting an absentee ballot. What's your name? Mark? It's so good to talk to you."

Cats seem delighted to see us and have been getting extra scritches. More pictures and stories to follow.